Welp, here we are, Day 1!
#woot
I don’t want it to seem like I’m not excited, because I am. Old “friends” pop up out of the woodwork, I get to see some outstanding writing, and I get to play writer for a month as well. March 1st also brings the fact that the worst of winter is over. This is the first year that I can really say that seasonal depression really got me. It’s been more light out and I’ve been more upbeat the last few days. Daylight savings time is coming which will screw with my system, but it will help as well. All this plays into the fact that we are writing for a MONTH! Let’s freaking go!!
#areyouok
Hush. I looked back on SIX YEARS of writing for the Challenge and I see a pattern with the first post: The introduction. I tend to go simple, so here it is. Please feel free to steal it because, in all likelihood, I’ve stolen this from a writer much more talented than I! π
I am:
- 50 years old at the start of this challenge. How in the hell did this happen?
- a husband, a father, a son, a brother, an uncle, a cousin, a friend. I’m not always sure I’m good at being any of these, but I keep trying, which is the biggest thing.
- a coach. I graduated college thinking I’d be a football coach and here I am, 20+ years into being a middle school girls basketball coach. This past season, I coached my 100th win which was pretty awesome. It’s a passion of mine, but with the change of attitude in both players AND parents, I’m not sure it’s in the cards for me for too many more years.
- a writer. This blog has been around for 10 years. Again, how in the hell did this happen? It’s become a place for me to celebrate, vent, complain, and just allow my “written” words to express how I feel. I can’t always do that verbally as the introvert in me just won’t allow it. I feel a freedom here that I don’t always feel elsewhere to be able to put things down. I keep waiting for the “as a teacher, you can’t write this” email/call/text to come, but it really never has shown up. We’ll see after this month! π
- a bit lost in the world. I’m just not sure of my place right now. Covid has made my being a introvert that much worse. Meeting new people is hard and it’s even more so now. We’ve lost our teacher hangout on Fridays as so that connect is gone. Heck, so many connections with school and the community are just not there anymore. I have 6 – 8 years left in education (yes, I’m old) and I wonder, can I do this? I hate change and that’s all we’ve done for the last three years in our district with Covid and retirements. I just don’t know where I fit anymore.
- Love music. Right now, I’m listening to this mix off of YouTube. I’ll write more about this later, but many times, music is what keeps me going.
- an Iowa Hawkeye fan. This is a golden age of Iowa sports with wrestling doing so well, men’s and women’s basketball (the women sharing a Big 10 Championship) completeing at a high level, the football team is trending upward, the indoor track team has repeated as Big Ten Champs, and the baseball team seems loaded this year. Last night’s men’s game had some “holy sh*” moments and some tearful ones and the women’s team destroyed their third Top 10 oppenent in two weeks.
- into technology. I’m teaching a tech class (by the seat of my pants) so I’m setting up a “nerd room” at home to be able to practice what I’m teaching. I love Twitter and have found a happy place in the Hawkeye Nation online. I live around two hours from Iowa City, so getting to games is usually not something we get the chance to do. I live vicariously through those people in the midst of Kinnick Stadium or Hawkeye Carver Arena. I can be found @aniowateacher or @anIowacoach, both are active.
- losing weight. Since January 3rd, I’ve lost 8 pounds, and my goal for March is another four pounds, getting me below 205. If I can get below 200 pounds and hold it, I’m going to get a tattoo. Don’t tell me of what, because that goal is still a ways off. Right now, it’s about continuing to eat right, moving my body, enjoying that feeling that only happens after a workout is done.
- Finally, I’ll be here A LOT this month. I enjoy reading the slice of old friends and new writers. There are so many people who make my writing look like that a three year old. I love to show gratitude and appreciation to those out there who model what good writing looks like. It makes me want to do better.
If you’ve gotten this far, thank you! π I hope to “see” many of you over the course of this month. I’m excited to reconnect or forge new connections.
Good luck to all this month as we being another Challenge, together.
#LFG
March 1, 2022 at 11:42 am
This piece was so much fun to read, and I felt that I learned a lot about you. I love lists as a generative form for writing, and this one allowed you to range so widely over the things that are important to you. Thanks for sharing the music mix too!
March 1, 2022 at 12:21 pm
Music is where I dive into when I’m just not feeling it at all. Music and podcasts have brightened so many days! π Thank you for the comment and good luck with your writing this month!
March 1, 2022 at 11:43 am
I love this format. I may have to give it a try myself. Thank you for sharing so much about yourself. This year has seemed harder than last and the thought of spring and warmer temps has me feeling hopeful too. I can relate to so many of your points. I look forward to reading more of your slices.
March 1, 2022 at 12:20 pm
Thank you for comment, Rita! I wish you well with your writing these next 31 days! π
March 1, 2022 at 12:08 pm
“I am” prompt is good to use. You get to choose what matters at this particular point in your life. I heard passion and energy in your voice. #gowrite
March 1, 2022 at 12:19 pm
Thank you, Terje! Good luck to you this month in your writing.
March 1, 2022 at 12:41 pm
I always look forward to your stories…you write with such passion! And here we go!
March 1, 2022 at 4:35 pm
Darin…so much of what you have written resonates with me! I turned 50 in October and I still don’t quite believe it. There has been too much change for me. I have never had seasonal depression that felt like anything more than a tiny bit of depression, but this year I am really feeling it. The SOL challenge always reminds me that 31 days from now there will be a lot less snow than we have now – maybe we won’t even have any left! I look forward to reading more of your 2022 slices!
March 1, 2022 at 4:47 pm
Well hello, Darin! Nice to meet you. Love the music mix. My music taste is vast and I enjoy listening to what others enjoy too. Looking forward to reading more!
March 1, 2022 at 5:07 pm
What a great “meet and greet” – especially for introverts. (Yes! I am one of those myself!) I smiled at the I am a coach. My daughter is a girls basketball coach too, and I love watching her coach my former students. My students are writing “I Am” poems about the characters in a book. It also makes a great slice idea…that I might just steal! Happy writing!
March 1, 2022 at 7:33 pm
What level does your daughter coach? I’ve been a middle school coach for all my year except one. At one point, I had a varsity job offered to me, but it was at 3:00 AM as we getting ready to leave for a vacation. It was then I knew, my family was more important. π
I love that your student are writing “I am” poems. That is so cool!
Thank you for your comment and happy writing! π
March 1, 2022 at 5:42 pm
I am relieved you added a hashtag at the end, otherwise I might have suspected an imposter. Iβm glad I know most of those things about you having traveled this road together for these six years. Itβs a great idea for a slice. I wish I had thought of it. π€£
March 1, 2022 at 7:31 pm
You know, it’s amazing that there are those out there like you that I’ve not met, yet, know so much about. The fact that writing of all things brings people together just blows me away.
Happy writing! π
March 1, 2022 at 5:51 pm
Welcome back!
I enjoyed reading your post because you have a strong voice. I look forward to reading more in the days ahead.
Happy writing!
March 1, 2022 at 7:30 pm
Thank you for the comment! I appreciate your words! Others have comment about the tone and voice of my blog. To me, it’s just me.
I just love to write! π
Good luck to your writing this month!
March 1, 2022 at 6:03 pm
Great intro and that Covid introvert thing has hit me hard too! Look forward to reading your words throughout the month.
March 1, 2022 at 7:28 pm
I tell you, I used to love crowds. Now, not so much. We went to Chicago last weekend and while it was nice to get out, it was also nice to come back to quiet old Iowa!
My only complaint is that I am 45 minutes away from anything! Grrr!!
March 1, 2022 at 6:56 pm
This was great to read. I’m here because my welcome wagon commenter from 5 years ago, Susan Kennedy, mentioned your slices when we were meeting for the first time (on zoom) at the end of January. Now I feel like I know more about where you’re coming from. One of my daughter’s apartment mates at PA school is an Iowan. She has helped us find you on the map! We’re very ignorant here on the east coast. Looking forward to reading more. I’m with you on the need for more light!
March 1, 2022 at 7:27 pm
Goodness, I’ve been found?? π It’s not what you know, it’s who know you and Susan is a good person to know!
Where is your daughter’s roommate from in Iowa? I tell people that and I always get the “do you grow corn/pigs/beans” question. No, but I do grow zucchini and peppers! π
Thanks for the comment and good luck with your writing this month!
March 1, 2022 at 7:16 pm
Glad to read your post. I grew up in Ames, so Cyclone fan here. I did go to the University of Iowa my freshman year…then ran back home to ISU! I hear you about all the COVID. I took this year off from teaching though I have about 8 years before I can retire. I just needed a minute to regroup and let the world calm the heck down a little. Thanks for the post.
March 1, 2022 at 7:24 pm
Hey! I have one daughter who is an ISU grad living in Ankney (software engineer) and another who started at Iowa, then ran off to ISU (no herd of cows in Iowa City). Nothing wrong with regrouping, I could use that right now.
Thank you for the comment and good luck with your writing this month! π
March 1, 2022 at 10:29 pm
Hello old friend and SURPRISE I’m doing this Challenge now. When I read ” Covid has made my being a introvert that much worse.” I felt that as the younger crowd would say. I’m looking forward to seeing what hashtags you’ll include with your daily Slices for the next 31 days.
March 1, 2022 at 10:43 pm
Hey!! I’m not sure I should take that as compliment or an insult! ππ
However, I’m so happy to see you here! I cannot wait to read your slices and see where they take you (and the rest of us too)!
March 1, 2022 at 10:43 pm
Always take it as a compliment. We both know you’re young at heart & that counts!
March 1, 2022 at 10:50 pm
Good to “see” you again! Congrats on the weight loss. I know how hard it is to make those goals, especially after a couple of sort immobile years! I am right with you on the “do I want to do this any more” front. Teaching is in my blood and is what I have always wanted to do, and right now…I am not feeling it. You are not alone!