This will be Day 3 of 49 in my 7 x 7 Contract.
#pleaseexplain
Yes, this drives my wife crazy too, when I don’t put the needed details in when talking with her. Sometimes it’s the stroke, sometimes it just me, but when I write, I do it totally on purpose!
#hahahaha
Anyway, being a jerk aside, last week, we went through the Franklin Covey 7 Habits of Highly Effective People training as part of our Leader in Me program. It was a hard two days because there was a lot of looking inside yourself, something I’m not good at, not at all. However, coming out the second day, I know it was a good experience because I’d a chance to sit and really learn about my former teammates in 8th grade. That was the bummer in it all, I didn’t get to learn much about my current team.
That being said, my accountability partner and I are working together to get more healthy and get me back writing consistently on Tuesdays and Fridays.
One of the things we are doing as a group is the above mentioned 7 x 7 contract. Seven days a week for seven weeks, we are to live the 7 habits. Yesterday’s task was to “Refine Your Mission Statement”, which again, was tough. This isn’t something I’m good at, writing about myself in terms on what I see at the “end in mind” of my life. I’ve always just tried to live a good life, the right life, and this makes me see that sometimes, what I do doesn’t match up with what I say, which again is tough to swallow.
However, in see that in myself, it allows me to become a better me, a more thoughtful me, a me that can begin to see “the end in mind.”
So, my 16 readers, here my mission statement.
My Mission:
- to love unconditionally.
- to laugh with enthusiasm.
- to grow each day into my better me.
- to show my gratitude in multiple ways.
- to be in the moment.
- to be thankful on a daily basis.
- to fail often.
- to live with wonder and passion.
- to find my true self.
It’s hokey and a little bit fluffy, but it’s what I came up with for right now. If you are so inclined, I’d love to hear what you think of it.
September 25, 2018 at 11:47 pm
My husband suffers from that not-giving-the-details affliction. Good to hear I’m not alone in this situation. From what I can tell, it seems you are living this mission statement. Committing to this kind of thing is good practice. Reminds you of what matters.
September 26, 2018 at 11:41 am
>Reminds you of what matters.<
And that's my driving force to follow through, because I need that reminder. With all the change happening, it's good to get your head on straight to enter a new phase, and I'm hoping this is just what I need! 🙂
September 26, 2018 at 11:19 am
How amazing you were able to go through 7 habits training! It has been years for me – you took me back to some memories I have not thought about in a while!
7X7 – I like it! I will do my own experiment with it!
I do reference Covey’s philosophy often. I particularly like the EMOTIONAL BANK ACCOUNT.
October 2, 2018 at 10:19 am
I’ve struggled because there’s a lot to process through, and I’m not organized at all. I do like the thought processes, how we need to take care of our big rocks and go forward. It will be interesting, adding this in with another self-awareness program I started, to see where I end of.
September 28, 2018 at 1:14 am
16 readers? You’re so funny.
I like your mission statement. I have never read 7 Habits, but my daughter did in middle school and it still resonates with her. Maybe I should check it out.
I’m looking forward to hearing more about this 7 x 7 thing–sounds like it’ll be quite the adventure.
October 2, 2018 at 10:21 am
I’ve tried, I really have to read the 7 Habits. I’ve bought the book a couple of times at garage/book sales, but in the end, it’s a tough read that I simply cannot get through.
It’s an interesting take on life, that is for sure! 🙂
October 2, 2018 at 8:01 pm
Hmm, okay. Maybe I should just go to a workshop instead…
October 2, 2018 at 4:39 am
Perhaps instead of beginning with the end in mind we should begin with the now in mind. If I had to say my mission, I would say do your best today. Notice the people, the environment around me. Appreciate now. Give myself and others the benefit of the doubt. Take ownership of my actions, thoughts, and words. Believe in potential. Yours sounds fine to me. That’s another one of my missions, accept other’s truths.
October 2, 2018 at 10:23 am
>Take ownership of my actions, thoughts, and words. Believe in potential. <
I may just steal these as I'm sure we'll be asked to "reconnect with our mission statement" at some point. I'm more of a "be in the now" kind of person myself, but I understand that thought of reverse planning. We'll see how this flows and go with it! 🙂
October 2, 2018 at 10:36 am
I’m definitely writing about my mission statement next week so we are freely sharing ideas. 🙂