I’ve figured that if I play my cards right, I could retire in 5 years.
#excusemewhat
I know. It wasn’t that long ago that it was many, many years until that event happened. Change is in the air for sure. Now, here’s the tough part, do we want the change coming?
I mean sure, retirement sounds great, but I know that our majority party will start looking at our retirement system, claiming it’s “a drain on taxpayers” and then, start messing with things, privatizing it, like they do with everything because someone has to make money, right?
We passed a voucher bill that will cost the state hundreds of millions of dollars in the name of change. We are looking at so many LGBTQ bills right now because we have to change, right? Our governor even suggested that if a book is taken out of one school library, it should be taken out of all of them.
And then there’s the change going on right now in our classrooms. Many students don’t see the need to listen to or respect those in the schools: adults and peers alike. Teachers are tired. They are worn thin from the “you are a hero” message of three years ago to the “you are groomer” message today. That change has been devastating to schools. Thousands of teacher openings have gone unfills, many have left mid-year, and many more are considering a new career.
I’ve never liked change, no sir, I have not. I’ve always been the rock, the steady one, and I’m at a loss right now. Retirement is close, but my tank is nearing empty right now. These days off have made me realize that I can’t just leave it at school. I’ve frittered this day away, but Friday, our day off because of parent-teacher conferences, I did a bunch of grading. There aren’t many professions where taking work to do on their days off is the norm. Teaching it is.
Change is not in my wheelhouse. I prefer routine, the comfort of knowing what’s coming up next. From school year to school year, that’s different too. Next year, I will be working with at least four new teachers in our middle school. That’s a third of our middle school staff in one year. I don’t make friends and connections easily, so this bothers me. In two years, I may be the last one of the old guard in our school. People talk about how “it’s a family here” and to some extent, I agree. But those first years, we worked together, had drinks together, and go to know each other as people, not just co-workers. True, a favorite walking hole for teachers closed up, but we don’t do that anymore, and it’s tough to get to know someone as you are running to the office to make copies.
A friend of mine is retiring next year and she says she has 2 semesters left, which is very cool. At the end of this year, I will have 58 semesters as a teacher (29 years for those non-mathletes out there!). Teaching has taken me to great places and allowed me to do great things. I’ve had the privilege of teaching with some of best teachers out there and teaching/coaching some amazing students. I will never regret being a teacher, no matter how many people call me names, talk the profession down, or tell me about my “summers off”. I’ve impacted lives and made a difference, which is very cool.
I’ve seen the change in my profession, in the students I teach, and the way the general public looks at us. One can hope during these five years (or maybe more), someone will create change for the better, giving us in the profession some legs to stand on and a little respect.
Please.
March 6, 2023 at 3:03 pm
I find your post interesting. I’m looking at the possibility of retiring in 11 years. I like to know in 11 years I have the choice whether to retire. Good luck deciding. Change is hard.
March 6, 2023 at 4:21 pm
I hope this is a slump that you can recover from. But if not, dont feel guilty about looking to retirement. My favorite line here is ‘from heroes to groomers.’ The banned book issue drives me crazy. I understand your despair. Take care of yourself- your bio shows that you have a lot of life at home to take your mind elsewhere!
March 6, 2023 at 5:11 pm
You’ve put a lot in your post that is on the minds and hearts of so many teachers I know. If the Illinois pension system were in charge of my choices, I’d have to teach for probably 13 more years. I do know I can say that while I still LOVE what I do, I do not love what public education has become and where it is going. The classroom will not get to have me for 13 more years. Hopefully, with the weather changing, you can start to enjoy more of the things you love outside the classroom!
March 6, 2023 at 6:15 pm
I realized that I will be eligible to retire in six years. I’m having a hard time wrapping my head around that. While I don’t anticipate retiring then, it’s definitely strange to think about. I’m starting to teach the students of former students and one of my former students is student teaching in first grade at my school. No wonder I’m going gray!
March 7, 2023 at 8:04 am
Oh I’m right there with you. I have a number of students in class who’s parents I taught. I also have two teachers in the middle school that I taught as well. Once a couple more of our old crew retire, it will be me, the old man of our staff. How did this happen?? 🙂
March 7, 2023 at 9:03 am
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March 6, 2023 at 6:20 pm
I retired in 2019 after a 38 year career and realize I was lucky in that I missed all the post-pandemic horror educators have experienced, and my last decade was extraordinarily good. How often does that happen. I think you’ll have to listen closely to your internal voice and your family so you make the best decision you can for yourself.
March 7, 2023 at 8:02 am
That voice is a chattering away right now! 🙂 5 years is a good time to make sure that it’s the right decision!
March 6, 2023 at 6:30 pm
I retired in May. I knew I was ready. I do not miss being at school every day, but I am enjoying the opportunity to volunteer a few hours a week, doing one of the things I loved doing as a teacher- sharing books with students. I’m a little worried with so much talk of banning books that it is a joy could be stolen. I know if students (and I) cannot freely choose books that will end it for me.
March 7, 2023 at 8:01 am
That’s a very good point about the books. That joy of finding a great book on your own is second to none.
March 6, 2023 at 7:13 pm
Your post brings up many concerns about our profession. It has definitely changed so much in the past decade, and will definitely change in the next. I think it’s okay to change careers or retire if it’s no longer making you happy. We are meant to be happy (for the most part) in our jobs. There will be normal ups and downs, but if it’s mainly down, maybe it’s time for a change. I hope you decide what is best for you. Sending you strength and wisdom!
March 7, 2023 at 8:00 am
I sound like my dad, a 30+ year teacher himself: “Kids are just different.” 5 years is a long time, and when I reach that point, it may be different. We’ll see what the future brings! 🙂
March 6, 2023 at 7:44 pm
Do you know how happy I am I was able to retire in 2017, sub for a couple of years, and then retire for good when Covid hit? I look at what’s happening in our state and just cringe. What is happening? I know most people in the state actually don’t agree with our governor. She is is just dictating what her big-money donors want. I know it’s a hard decision, but do what’s best for you.
March 7, 2023 at 7:58 am
And that’s just it. Our state is slowly becoming one of those states we look at and think “what’s the matter with you?”. Minnesota looks attractive, but with my parents still around, it won’t happen for a while. We’ll see. I can imagine the joy of retirement, then finally saying “I am retired” and walking away. My hope, I feel that same joy too! 🙂
March 6, 2023 at 8:10 pm
Oh boy, you’re between a rock and a hard spot. I’d say take retirement as soon as you are eligible. You can always sub, which surprisingly, the money adds up. It’s great interaction with the kids and no responsibility for the grades.
March 6, 2023 at 9:03 pm
> It’s great interaction with the kids and no responsibility for the grades.<
I'm all for this right now! 🙂
March 6, 2023 at 8:13 pm
Ah change. It’s never good when it comes to the political world amd education. In WV they are working on messing with our insurance and it’s a mess. In all honesty I’d say retire as soon as you can.
March 6, 2023 at 9:03 pm
Thanks, Anna. Education in general just sucks .right now. I wish I could imagine a place where it gets better, but right now, I just cannot.
March 6, 2023 at 9:41 pm
Wow I really like the uncertainty in this post. Retirement is a huge deal and some people are so ready for it while others find it difficult to fill your days. My mom retired in November – once the holidays were over and January came, she was struggling to figure out what to do during the hours she used to go to work. She now is in some meetup groups but I know it’s hard for her. My mother in law “retired” in 2020 and she has been subbing or working part-time as a teacher ever since because she feels like she must work. I hope you will have a smooth transition once it gets closer. Thank you for the honesty of this post.
March 7, 2023 at 7:56 am
My dad retired 20 years ago, subbed a bit, then said “screw it” and never went back. He’s been happy with some volunteer opportunities and just sitting back, catching up with the reading he missed out on during his teaching career! 🙂
March 7, 2023 at 9:50 am
I don’t like change either but it’s the only constant there is and unfortunately I can always count on it
March 7, 2023 at 9:55 am
Oh, Darin, the honesty in your post is touching. So many things about education make me angry and sad. One worry I have is the teachers who are being censored about teaching American history and allowing inclusive books are some of the ones who are leaving education early because they can’t, in good conscience, continue. That frightens me even more. Hang in there, Darin; I know its difficult.
March 11, 2023 at 4:52 am
I believe that all teachers should have an early retirement. The energy that this profession takes subtracts many years and retiring at 55 would be a fair compensation.