If you are one of 12 readers of my blog (thanks Mom for recruiting some of your friends!), then you know I’m a basketball junkie. I’ll watch just about any basketball I can find. Fifth grade recess? Sure! High school boys? Heck yes. A team full of former players? Absolutely!
Last night, after conferences, I was given permission to “end the season”! ๐ Our regular middle school season started at the end of October and we finished that up in the middle of January. This the first year of our “club team”, so we continue playing with almost all the same girls from the middle part of January through this week. It’s an abrupt end of to another special season, and not for reasons people might thinks.
We had 8 wins against 3 losses. We beat teams we were supposed to beat, lost to teams I expected we lose to, but we also had games where we won where we had no business winning. That’s the sign of growth on any level. We started out with no shooters, period. Last year, we had girls who, as the season progressed, could shoot the lights out. This group did not start that way, so we practiced shooting, a lot. Now, we’ve got two girls I trust (almost) to take whatever shot comes open to them. The question I have, will in continue into the off season? That I cannot answer with these two because each have to their own unique personalities and that brings with is their own unique set of challenges too! ๐
Last year’s group was short. We didn’t have a girl over 5’9″, so they had to work hard to defend taller girls. This year, we had two girls at 5’10” and another girl at 5’9″! We were able to do somethings on defense that I could normally do because of size. I’m not much a zone defense guy because I watch girls get lazy with it. I could put those three on the floor together, and we’d slow teams down because they’d be forced into jump shots! These three need to get in the gym to work on two things: jump shots and post moves. If this happens, who knows how good they can be?!?
With the size on this team, and the shooters in the grade above, the next few years will be fun to watch.
This year’s addition really grew together as a team. Each 8th grade team comes in as a collection of players, and this year was no different. The difference was that this team was moreย segregated between between their friend groups than most I’ve had. Then, they started to trust each other. I don’t think either group is going to invite the other over for a sleep over, but that trust just grew out from our practicing, something that I wasn’t expecting. As they started playing games, you could see it on the floor, girls trying new things because they knew their teammates wouldn’t freak out if the shot or pass wasn’t successful. There was a willingness, more so that in many years I’ve coached, for girls to reach beyond their social status and just play. They probably don’t realize it happened, but that’s the thing I’m most proud of with them, just their willingness to be a team.
The one thing I think contributed this the most: breakfast. We practiced, from October to March, every Wednesday morning, at 6:30 A.M. That in itself will bring a group together. However, after each morning practice, the girls would come down to my room, and we’d have breakfast: cinnamon rolls and chocolate milk. The girls would tell stories, laugh, and just bond. That one time contributed more our team than most of the practices ever did. Getting to see your teammates, your classmates, as funny, goofy 8th grade girls, that was priceless.
My takeaways from this season: 1) My focus on defense is correct. 2) Shooters are made in the off-season. Get the 7th grade interested in shooting. 3) Cinnamon rolls are the cure to what ails the word!
#cinnomonrollsforthewin
March 2, 2018 at 1:53 pm
I would come to your room at 6:30am for cinnamon rolls and chocolate milk! Not sure about the basketball though ๐
March 2, 2018 at 2:33 pm
LOL!! ๐ We have boys stop by asking for the extras: “Are you a girl who got up at 5:00 to get here by 6:30? Nope.” My girls take no crap and tell it they way it is! That’s one of the many reasons I love coaching them! They may bend the rules for you though! ๐
March 2, 2018 at 2:11 pm
#cinnamonrollswillfixtheworld
March 2, 2018 at 2:32 pm
Indeed, they will! ๐
March 2, 2018 at 2:15 pm
I coach basketball too. Several years ago my JV team had morning practices due to conflicts with shared gym times. The kids dreaded practicing before school at first, but quickly grew to like practicing in the morning better. I think it helping bring the team closer together as well.
March 2, 2018 at 2:31 pm
I love morning practices! I come away feeling more awake, I can leave at a decent time after school, and the girls are more focused as well! Not sure I can get buy in to have them every day, but Wednesdays were great! ๐ I’m glad it worked out for your team as well! ๐
March 2, 2018 at 3:20 pm
Ahhh…there are those cinnamon rolls again. You have such a powerful influence on young people-they’ll remember you forever. ๐
March 2, 2018 at 4:48 pm
Okay if cinnamon rolls fix the world then I’m showing up in Charleston tomorrow with a whole bounty of them!
I’m not a basketball person but for a few minutes I was actually interested. Your team will remember those breakfasts for years to come. That’s a perfect bonding time for kids. They let their guard down a little more and suddenly common interests are found and slowly more smiles appear.
March 2, 2018 at 6:16 pm
oooh, that last comment came out of nowhere. While I love basketball, at 5’3″ on a good day, I didn’t play and couldn’t coach. How cinnamon rolls could right every wrong, that I know a lot about! These girls learned something important and valuable from you, that we can have something in common with someone we at a glance, think we have no common ground. That my friend, changes the world.
March 4, 2018 at 6:15 am
Wow! What a commitment you and these girls have made! And o, so, so much to be said for breaking bread (or cinnamon rolls) together! I’m a basketball junkie too- my son played on the same team from second grade until he was in high school. At the beginning, some of the kids couldn’t even tie their own shoes, by the end they were flying around the country competing at the national level. I really miss those days!
March 4, 2018 at 8:38 am
No, I don’t think we’ll EVER do something like that (flying around), but I would agree with your above statement. Breaking bread together, sharing stories, no matter how trivial, breaks down those social barriers. They see each other in a little different light, which is a good thing! Thanks for stopping by! ๐
April 18, 2018 at 5:06 pm
Oh man, I just found this post and I think its awesome. I have this one friend of mine who is the only girl to play basketball in our local gym. props to those girls. Question btw, who do you think is going to win the playoffs?
April 19, 2018 at 9:48 pm
Hey James! First, thanks for the comment! I loved coaching these girls and am definitely wishing I could continue to do so. They grew so much. I just hope they keep on the right track and continue to push. As for the playoffs, I’m a Spurs fans through and through, but I don’t think they get out of the first round. In the West, I’d take the Warriors and in the East, I’m going with the 76ers. I’ll take the Warriors in 6. ๐
April 20, 2018 at 7:39 am
I”m sorry about your coach. I’m a die-hard LA fan so now i’m just cheering for the downfall of the Cavs and I want Raptors to win. Thanks for sharing!