I’d planned to write about how I’m tired of being flexible. But I can write about that anytime time, because I’m going to continue to frustrated with being tied into a pretzel by 17,000 schedule changes and ever changing expectations. No, this blog will be written in it’s full, angry glory at another time.
No, today it’s about connections. We have a group of Germans in our classroom who are part of an exchange our district does every two years. The German students come, stay with host families, and just become part of the family. Then, in June, our host students will travel to Uberlingen to do the same thing: immerse themselves in the German culture, see the sights of the area, and see what German students see on a daily basis.
Our students in my room are respectful, quiet, and very well spoken. They connect with my sixth graders, even though my sixth graders are acting like puppies around them, which is to be expected as well. The connections the Germans seem to make with my students is fun to see, because the last time we this happen, I was an 8th grade teacher and the 8th graders were a little bit “too cool” for my liking. My sixth graders have no fear about looking or sounding silly, which is a good and bad thing. I love that they are very much still kids, but wish sometimes that filter would kick on!
Contrast this with a Slice of Life blog I just read about a writer not finding the connection. In her recent blog titled, When You Don’t Connect As An Author, our author write about the Slice of Life and the lack of connection she feels with the community. As I read through, I nodded my head and felt a connection to this writing, because I’ve felt the same way at times. I know my blogs are superficial at time and the writing is subpar when I’m in a hurry, but I keep coming back. Why you ask?
No, because while I want to connect with people outside of my school, state, country, continent, it’s not imperative that I do. I follow her blog and I don’t know how many others as well. I love the fact that if my blog is crap, someone else will pick up the slack, or vice versa. I hate that she’s not feeling that connection, because we do need it some where. I know when I’ve hit a streak of no comments, I start to wonder as well, “Does my blog smell??” But, I keep coming back to SOL because believe that, while I may not always fit with my brand of goofiness, my voice is out there, and it cannot be heard if I back away now. I tell my students this and I have to keep telling myself this too. I hope she continues to see that her writing does have a purpose, and while it may not connect with all members of the SOL community, it does connect with me.
And since this blog was started at the beginning of the day, and it’s now 5:45 PM, another connection has popped up. I’ve connected with my basketball players over the fact they’ve felt something “pop” in their foot too. Playing three on three with my team today, something popped.
My goals tonight: get some grading done and keep my foot elevated.
Getting old is not for the faint of heart (a title I have of another blog!).
October 23, 2018 at 7:44 pm
Honestly. Stop with the no-one-reads my blog. I comment every single time. We are the best of friends that have never met. Jeez. You know… it depends on the time of day, the subject, the week, the moon phase. We write for ourselves. Other people are lucky to take a peek. Xxoo
October 23, 2018 at 8:01 pm
LOL! 🙂 Self deprecation is one of my lovable qualities! Besides, I know that people read this thing and if they didn’t, I’d still be writing it. Why? Because it feels good to poke a little fun at myself and get my thoughts down.
Don’t worry, I know you read and am always grateful you take the time to do so!
So, relax and enjoy show (and thank you for commenting)! 🙂
October 23, 2018 at 8:10 pm
I love reading your blog because your writing is full of voice and so down to earth! This story is a great example for your students to show how writing can evolve from what you first planned to write about. Enjoyed it…hope the foot is feeling better! 🙂
October 23, 2018 at 8:35 pm
My foot is sore, but it’s not swelling so I’m feeling good about that! I’ve got 6:30 practice tomorrow morning, so I doubt there will be any of me out on the floor, but I don’t think a doctor’s visit will be happening either!
As for my blog, I’ve found I just like writing. Nothing strong, nothing powerful, but just to put words down, 500 at a time, it feels good. However, we all need that connection, and I’m glad to have found that with some readers! 🙂
Thank you for your comment today! I do appreciate it!
October 24, 2018 at 4:25 pm
Thanks…that’s why I write too…just to to it. I always feel great after I do, so I’ll keep on writing-and reading other blogs. 🙂
October 23, 2018 at 10:24 pm
Hope your foot is doing better. As a former certified athletic trainer (and still married to one) please ice that foot and keep it elevated for at least 24-48 hours. Keep writing, your blog is one of the few that I read no matter what.
October 24, 2018 at 3:39 am
How exciting to have students from another country in your class. It is an amazing experience both for the visitors and the hosts. The question of blogging and connecting is one that is always up. The connections matter. If I would write only for myself then a journal would be enough. Blog posts hope for a connection and a response. The people who started blogging at the same time as I did, many of them have stopped, and I miss them. I have discovered that there is no connection between the quality of my writing or when I publish or how much I comment or whether I share a link on Twitter. Some posts get several responses and others don’t even get ten readers (forget comments). I think the three comment expectation would work if people commented on the three people who posted before them not random three in the list. I think also sharing each other’s post like you did today might be helpful. Thank you for writing the slice today and changing the topic midway. Wishing you a quick recovery.