As I write this, I’m SO tired.
It’s been a long year, but not because of behaviors. I’ve got a really good class.
#sweet
They just don’t engage. That’s the exhausting part for me. This is the part of teaching that leaves me a drooling pile at the end of each day.
The decisions, the choices, the “do ignore that behavior or do I correct it” or the “I cannot give this student another ounce of attention right now”, all of it. I learned about decision fatigue a couple of years ago, and this describes teachers, tired because of all the decisions we make on a daily basis.
We talk about this every day. Engage. Be part of the lesson. My scores, my tests, the work the kids do, all point to half my students being invested in the work, the other half not.
I try to be engaging. I try to up my energy. I work to move more around the room, checking in, getting down to their level, but nothing seems to help.
And I’m left just drained, physically, menatally, and emotionally.
Now, if this was at the beginning of my career, I would not have lasted. I know my teaching days are numbered, so there’s zero reason to hold back.
It’s just I’m so dang tired.
And don’t even get me started at what’s happening at the state and federal levels. Iowa’s about to legalize descrimination, create new avenues for parents to sue with “divisive topics” are taught, and of course, vouchers. Our country is a dumpster fire and we’ve got 47 months left. People are cheering the lose of rights, the violations of the Constitution, and our own privacy because they wanted lower gas prices.
But, spring in coming. Gardens will need to be planted. We may be back into the chicken game, after a brief hiatus, because of egg prices.
There are things to sustain me.
But right now, I’m so tired.
Not a rant, not a whine, not a bitch and moan session, just facts.
Teaching ain’t easy.
Hopefully, we’ll see you Saturday as the Slice of Life Challenge begins. 30 days, 30 blogs, commenting each and every day. Let’s see what we can do, together.


February 25, 2025 at 9:48 pm
I feel your pain and the struggle is real! Engagement, especially this time of year is probably the biggest challenge. I think most teachers face, Good luck, and know youβre not alone.
February 25, 2025 at 9:52 pm
Most teachers do feel this for sure. I just feel it is worse this year, more than any other. I cannot help but beat myself up over it. That’s just me.
February 25, 2025 at 9:53 pm
Oh definitely. I feel like if I were a better teacher, they would be excited and engaged, even though Iβve been teaching for way too long and should know better.
February 25, 2025 at 10:11 pm
βDumpster fireβ is a good description. I get frustrated but then Iβm reminded there are so many dedicated teachers trying to make a difference. Yes, theyβre tired and frustrated and they need our support. But I still believe. Iβm probably a bit naive but I still have hope. Thanks for everything you do each day for your students!
February 26, 2025 at 1:42 am
Oh my god, I had a class like that one semester, and you’re right: it was SO draining. I tried so hard to get them going, and it just did not work to the point where I finally was just like, “Whatever, I’m going to just teach the class the way I do and if they’re not giving it back to me then OH WELL.” (Also, I teach college so I know it’s not exactly the same esp. because this was even during summer school so a shorter semester than usual.) I ran into one of my students the next semester, and she said she loved the class. I COULDN’T TELL. But I was glad she told me so. Still, man. Yeah, I will never forget that experience.
March 1, 2025 at 4:03 pm
This story does give me hope that it’s not just me! I have four students who struggle with the language, so I’ll give them some slack, but the rest of them? Ugh! As a whole, I really enjoy this group, but dang, just throw me a bone here! π
February 26, 2025 at 10:49 am
Darin, thank you for speaking up. That paragraph about all that people were willing to give up for lower gas prices makes me so sad. The loss of rights and violations are mind-numbing right now. Peace to you and our country!
March 1, 2025 at 4:01 pm
Peace indeed. I thought it would slow down, but if anything, the “wth” moments have gotten more frequent! My writing will be my saving grace! π
February 26, 2025 at 12:23 pm
The apathy is exhausting. Honestly, you could probably design a lesson and present it in a popular TikTok format & they wouldn’t bat an eye. I really hope your admin realizes that the students are engaging because of them not caring and not blaming you.
On the note of everything happening in government at the state level West Virginia is just as much of a circus as Iowa. Our newly elected governor believes himself to be besties with the Cheeto. We are rolling back vaccine requirements and setting up voucher programs. It’s all sorts of fun. *sigh* I’m tired and 2025 just began. I hope the rest of your week begins looking up.